Within this blog, I am writing
self-commitment and self-corrective application statements from my previous
blogs, Days 76 and 77. This is to assist and support myself to walk out of the fear
of confrontation, and into and as a self-directed being of/as effective
communication and self-authority.
I commit myself to push myself till I
am able to stand stable in the face of confrontation or any other social
interaction, within/through understanding my own mind and the within/as my mind
fears I have created for myself, deconstructing those fears and seeing them for
what they really are: limitation- Self-imposed limitation, that is. And within
this, I realize I have a choice. Through self-forgiveness I can forgive myself
for what and how I have accepted and allowed myself to live as thus far, because
within forgiveness there is responsibility- the responsibility to change self-
because a population of fearful and limited beings is not a population that
will stand up for Life in this world. However, I can only take responsibility for
myself, and change myself, because each is responsible for self and will face
self at the end of the day.
When and as I see that I am suppressing
myself due to the fear of feeling ‘bad or ‘wrong’ based on someone confronting
me about something, I stop, and I breathe. I bring myself back to awareness
within the understanding that feeling ‘bad’ or ‘wrong’ is no longer an option
because now I have self-forgiveness: I forgive myself, I look at my starting
point, and I change when/where necessary. In this way, I see, realize and
understand that Life becomes all about learning, expanding and growing, instead
of fearing, suppressing and controlling. Awesome.
I commit myself to not take being
confronted personally, because I understand the reaction of another is never
about me, it’s only ever about self. Within this, I see, realize and understand
that I can only make it about me if I am participating and interacting from a
starting point of and as ego- because then all and everything is about me,
thus:
When and as I see that I am
participating with another from a starting point of ego- wherein I feel ‘attacked’
and like I’m ‘losing’ the fight, I stop, and I breathe. I bring myself back out
of ego by breathing through the energetic experience of ‘loss’ and ‘defensiveness’
until the energy is gone. I realize that I cannot be trusted when I am
participating within/as ego, so I direct myself to end the confrontation/interaction
before I do any more damage/create any more consequences. I breathe, and I end
it, and I realize that there is no competition, there are no ‘winners’ and ‘losers’.
There is only effective or non-effective communication, and one is a waste of
time.
I commit myself to write myself outwhenever I see that I participated from within/as a starting point of ego as
one of many characters of the mind, until I see/realize/understand what triggered
the character, why I accepted/allowed it, and how I developed it over time, so
that I can effectively stop and erase that character in order that I remain
Here through any and all interaction, as a stable being that can be trusted
over time.
I commit myself to only participate
in effective communication, and to perfect my communication skills till I can
create/direct myself as an effective communicator of words that I Live as
myself as Life.
When and as I think/believe/perceive that I have upset
someone by what I have done/said, I stop, and I breathe. I stop myself from
reacting in fear and I instead direct myself to look at the starting point of what
I said. Can I stand by it, or was it from a starting point of ego. If I can
stand by it, I humbly do. If it was from ego, I do not defend it, but rather
stop, and let go, and breathe through the energetic experiences that may
follow. I stop my participation until I see that I can be trusted to stand.
Authority
I commit myself to stop my reliance
upon external authority, and to instead be/become a self-responsible being that
considers myself and my place in this world, and acting according to principle,
that I can be trusted and trust myself and Who I am in every breath, and thus
not require authority.
When and as I see that I am
accepting/allowing another to have authority over me, I stop, and I breathe. I
bring myself back to self-direction within the understanding that any influence
authority has within me indicates a lack of self-authority, so I take back my
self-authority by being/becoming the author of myself, through scripting and
directing myself as who I am/will be as a self-honest being that does what’s
best for all. So…
When and as I see that the authority
of another is influencing me in any way, I stop, and I breathe. I bring myself
back to self-authority by stopping my reaction and letting go, then bringing
myself back Here by reminding myself that I had abdicated my self-authority, ad
now is time to take it back. I take these moments as reminders that I must be
my own authority in every single breath, or else somebody else will do it for
me, and I do not want anyone to author my Life for me, as it will never be what’s
best for me/best for all unless I take the self-responsibility to do it myself
within/as self-equality as all as one as equal.
