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Day 168- OCD: Thoughts that Create my Own Prison
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to pick at my skin in order to make it perfect / within the belief that picking will make it perfect and pure and cleansed and free of blemishes like the movie stars on the Hollywood screens and in the magazines, and the flashy happy special people that are exalted above the average human.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
think/believe/perceive from childhood fairy tales, societal influence and
media, that beautiful people are more special and count more, are more worthy
and deserve to be happy, while ugly people are bad, mean and ill-intentioned,
and they deserve to be shown their place and be gotten rid of, so that
beautiful people can continue to exist in bliss.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
think/believe/perceive that if I am ugly, like the ugly ones in the story books
and the Disney movies, that I should be perceived as less-than, less-valued and
not to be trusted, and thus cast aside and shunned by all because I had been
born into such a role through having been born ugly. And within this, I forgive
myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think/believe/perceive that
if I am born beautiful, I am exalted, I would deserve the respect, appreciation
and admiration of all, simply for gracing the earth as my mere presence of
beauty, living a life in abundance and bliss.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
fear being ugly, within the idea, perception and belief that if I am ugly, I
will not succeed, I will not be liked, I will be alone and cast aside,
ostracized and valueless.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
want/need/desire to be beautiful with perfect skin, within the thought/idea/perception/belief
that that it is a basic necessity for success, for relevance, for value,
acceptance, being liked, enjoying company and a mate, and living a life of
value and joy.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
place value on, and to define myself based on the external reactions of
society, individuals, cultures and organizations, media, etc… in order to
indicate to me whether I am successful, acceptable, likeable, respected,
relevant, allowed to experience enjoyment, based on appearance only, and how
closely it happens to be aligned to the accepted type of beauty at that time, instead
of seeing, realizing and understanding that I am able to give myself these
things by earning them through merit, within and as self-creation of and as a
self that supports and honours myself as Life.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
have ever separated myself as who and how I am based on who and how society,
culture, upbringing, individuals, media etc… have defined me, or how I have
perceived them to have defined me, based on the worldview I had created, and my
understanding of my place within it, without ever having taken the
self-responsibility to show and prove to myself, that I love and honour mySELF,
no matter how my physical picture presentation looks.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
have judged others, in having admired the beauty of others and having exalted
them above myself, having wished to look like them and not look like myself,
and I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have judged
myself as paling in comparison to the beautiful, picking myself apart and
trying to remove every flaw, within the though/idea/perception/belief that if
only I were beautiful: my experience of myself would change
Within this, I forgive myself that I have accepted and
allowed myself to judge others as ugly, and believe my judgment so thoroughly
that I would treat them differently within the thought/perception/idea/belief
that they are experiencing all those things I fear, and I forgive myself that I
have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as hideous and ugly because my
self-experienced was more aligned with
that which I had believed, thought of and thus created that an ugly
person should experience.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
create myself as my perceived ideal of an ugly person (ostracized, disliked,
unsuccessful, etc…), because I had been called ugly, or because I had not been
called beautiful.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
thus then strive to be beautiful, to study what it takes and what it means to
be beautiful, and to manipulate and contort myself to fit this idea and ideal
of beauty- all in an attempt to change my internal experience only.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
place the responsibility for my internal experience, upon my external
environment, which does not have my best interest at heart, and in which I do
not have decision-making ability,
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
believe my perception of myself based on my perception of how I am being
treated in my life and world, and based on the fact that I still did not feel
accepted, liked, successful, adored, respected admired etc…. I concluded that I
was not enough, not beautiful enough, not shiny enough, not special enough, and
within this, I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to
constantly and continuously judge myself and created even more inner turmoil,
friction and displeasure within and as me, thus perpetuating the entire cycle
of self-rejection, self-hate, self-diminishment, and self-loathing to the point
where, I would simply feel inadequate and unworthy within my environment and
towards those around me.
In this, I forgive myself that I haven’t accepted and allowed
myself to see, realize and understand – how interesting it is that, I was
attempting to and trying to through picking ‘make myself more beautiful’ within
the starting-point Polarity of me experiencing myself as ‘ugly’; not seeing
realizing and understanding that “who you are is what you create/manifest” and
so with me picking in/as the starting point of/as ‘me as ugly’ – I was actually
contributing MORE to/as confirming my starting-point of/as ‘me as ugly’ as I
would actually in fact compromise my body MORE.
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