The most important thing that I’ve learned from having
experienced 30 ‘new years’ is that a specific moment or event does not wipe the
slate clean and allow one for a new beginning or ‘fresh start.’ I moved home
yesterday. I’ve been gone for two years away at school, and now after all that
time, I’m back. I came back for three
months in the summer last year, when I was all full of hope and ideas of new
beginnings and fresh starts because I was all excited about ‘who I was going to
be’ this time, and how I had changed and how everything would be different.
Well, that didn’t happen. My bullshit was waiting for me there, like a stalker
waiting patiently for its unsuspecting prey, it pounced on me the moment the
initial excitement of being back home left and the reality of me, of who I am,
settled back in. This leads me to the topic of today’s pattern: saying hello.
When I say hello to people who I’m meeting for the first
time, sometimes I project into the future about the wonderful friendship I will
have with them, the friendship I always dreamed of, and I just get a feel that
maybe this will happen with this person. Or with moving; I love moving-
changing apartments, changing cities, states, countries- because of the false
perception I’ve created where I feel as though I have a new chance at a fresh
start, as if I can run away from my problems, or from myself.
This dd not happen this time, because I decided not to delay
the inevitable by participating in the energetic excitement of ‘fresh starts’
and ‘new beginnings’. I fell back into my personality that I created here
immediately and the familiarity of the struggles and battles that occurred within
me daily two years ago were right here with me, because, obviously, they were
never gone. Its only day one and I already resisted getting up in the morning,
getting ready for the da, I went online for too long, I procrastinated on getting
out to do my errands, unpacking and organizing my life here, and I became
overwhelmed by all the things I have to do.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to
think/believe/perceive that when I am starting something new, that I can forget
about who and what and how I am and have become as a human being and ‘start
fresh’ without identifying, stopping and changing all the patterns I have
accepted and allowed myself to participate in that have created me as I am.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to
think/believe or perceive that I can ‘clean my slate’ by changing locations or
starting new endeavors, without fully considering the entirety of who, what and
how I am.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to
think/believe or perceive that I can so easily change, and that I can avoid
facing me, or hide from myself by simply moving, doing something new or meeting
new people.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to want,
need or desire to escape me and to not have to face and work through all the
bullshit I have carried with me.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to want,
need or desire to abdicate my responsibility to myself by hiding or running
away from myself, thus abdicating my responsibility to Life and by trying to
find a ‘way out’ or a back door I can slip through and escape from, instead of
realizing the simple truth that I cannot run away or hide from myself, and
every time I try to I actually undermine any progress I may have made towards
self-change.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear
facing me, and to resist working throu my bullshit as my baggage that I have
created and manifested for myself throughout a life-time of not taking
responsibility, instead of realizing that I am Here, and I’m not going anywhere
so I might as well stop the games and start living for real, which begins by
stepping up and exposing me to myself in order to stop and change.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to utilize
energetic projections into the future to a future person or place I want to be without
considering who I actually am and what it will take to get there.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to project
into the future a ‘me’ that is carefree, fun-loving, expressive, fearless and
uninhibited and organized, instead of realizing myself as who and what I am,
wherein I struggle with suppression, I often fear self-expression, I feel
constantly inhibited by fear, shyness, embarrassment and judgment and I often struggle
to get the basic life-stuff organized into an effective pattern of consistency.
Within this pattern of projecting, I forgive myself for
accepting and allowing myself to sabotage myself by setting myself up for
failure by projecting something that will take a process to get to, as if it is
that easy to change the nature of who I am without first getting to know who I
am, why I am, where I am and how I am. Until I know me completely, I will not
be able to be fully Here, because there will always be a hidden part of me
waiting to pounce on me in unsuspecting moments that will undermine me until I
have faced me in my entirety.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to
fantasize and imagine what it would be like to be a different person, to
experience myself as some ideal I have created instead of coming to terms with
me Here, and walking with myself through space and time as I assist and support
myself to let go, work through and expose me Here.
I commit myself to myself, the self that I am Here, to
walking with myself through my manifested consequences until I am known in my
entirety so that I may be able to be Here with the rest of humanity in this
reality instead of in my head as a future projection that does not exist.
I commit myself to working towards self-change Here, where I
actually am, within the realization that I cannot run from me, and that a new
situation or place does not automatically grant me a ‘fresh start; but rather
every breath I take is a fresh start as a starting point for me to start, and
to keep starting until I’m done
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