Continuing from yesterday’s blog about self-suppression
instead of speaking up/standing up for myself
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to
believe that I have the power to make another submit to me if I stand up or
speak up for myself, instead of realizing that from a starting point of
self-honesty, there is no inferiority/superiority polarity game, only
self-expression in the moment, and I cannot control how another reacts/responds
to my self-expression.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge
myself through others, by judging ‘suppressed types’ which I see and define as
cold, hard, rigid, boring and asexual.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to fear
being seen by others as cold, hard, rigid, boring and asexual, instead of
realizing that I only fear seeing it in myself and thus hide it or
overcompensate for it, thus suppressing myself even more.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to judge
myself as cold, hard, rigid, boring and asexual (due to the fact that I know
that I suppress myself), instead of taking the entirety of me into
consideration and not judging but rather directing who and how I am.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to react
internally as anger when I feel I need to stick up for myself.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to become
angry and take it personally when someone challenges me or my stance.
I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to think
or believe that no one should challenge me because I’m not out to challenge
anyone.
To be continued….
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